You don´t want to talk to your children about sexuality? Your children don´t want to talk about sexuality?

Here you will find important advice on how to do it.

Talking about sexuality is one of the most important talks that you should have with your children, and it is one of the most difficult. You have to chat with them at a young age (recommendation is before 12 years of age) about the importance of waiting until marriage to start a sexually active life...

But if you are like the great majority of parents, probably you don´t know how to do it. Here you will find some tips that you should know and can help you talking to your children.

1) Make use of teaching moments: : There´s always moments during the day suitable for a natural conversation, for example; during a movie or television scene. Take advantage of these moments or other moment you find suitable to start a conversation.

2) Inform them little by little:

3) Make it a humorous moment: Talking about sex can be a stressful, so you should talk swiftly and with a sense of humor.

4) Show them how great is to share your sexuality with the person you choose to raise a family: Emphasize the importance of experiencing sex until marriage (even if you have had intimate relations before marriage). Parents are the most important reference to kids, and even though we have mistakes, we can guide them not to make the same mistakes.

Always remember:

We as parents are the most important of reference to our children. The only way of preventing unexpected pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases is through abstinence; there isn´t any contraceptive method 100% safe

You have to be emphatic about starting sexual relations until marriage. . If you don´t show confidence about this, it is more probable that they start a sexually active life at a short age.

It is very important to spend time with your kids, and always ensure adult supervision during after school hours. Remember that teens that spend more time alone after school start earlier a sexually active life.

You should should to talk to them about the risks regarding alcohol, tobacco and drug use, and make whatever is possible to make them avoid their use; because they are not only harmful for their health, also it has been shown that their use is directly related with the start of sexual relations at an early age.

Always advice your kids about their friends. You should encourage them to look for trustworthy and honest friends that don´t urge peer pressure on them to start a sexually active life, and don´t show any other risky behavior like alcohol, tobacco or drug use.